5 Great reasons to fall in love
It's
quite peculiar but everywhere I look, I see an absence of a very valuable
emotion: Love. I see loveless marriages, bored couples just passing their years
together because the security of being together outweighs the chances of their
finding love again.
I also meet so many people scared to
fall in love. Some of them are so scared at the possibility of being hurt that
the thought of such an eventuality deters them from even trying, else, they have
been bitten or become bitter by past experiences. Then there are those that are
just too shy and some that think they are undeserving of being recipients of
such an overwhelming emotion. And of course there are those that set their
expectations as high as Angelina Jolie or George Clooney. Let me give you
five great reasons to fall in love quick and to keep yourrelationship loving.
1. You feel great! Love struck
individuals constantly churn out a brain chemical called dopamine, a feel-good
stimulant that's responsible for those feelings of bliss, optimism and
patience. It infuses you with energy, excites you to discover and do new
things, eat new food, and the smallest of things cause so much joy.
2. You lose weight. When in love your
body is constantly pumping out a neurotransmitter called norepinephrine, which
in turn produces adrenaline which suppresses your appetite. Besides, most of us
tend to hit the gym more often in order to look and feel our best.
3. Whoever said "a fool in
love" couldn't have been more wrong because you become smarter! Scientists
at the University of Pavia in Italy found that falling in love raises levels of
a hormone that improves memory by triggering the growth of new brain cells.
4. You look younger because oxytocin,
triggers the release of DHEA, an anti-aging hormone that triggers cell
restoration in the body.
5. People in a relationships have 1/3
the death rate of single people and having a romantic support system protects
the body from developing high levels of cortisol (the stress hormone), which causes heart disease. What are you waiting for? Go
out there and fall in love.....!
I am 16-year-old boy and I met a girl on the first day of my school. I am attracted to her and incidently she sat in front of me during exams. She asked me for answers and I told her. Then one day she messaged me on a social networking site and we shared our numbers. Since then we have been talking regularly. But lately she has stopped calling me. What do I do?
I am 16-year-old boy and I met a girl on the first day of my school. I am attracted to her and incidently she sat in front of me during exams. She asked me for answers and I told her. Then one day she messaged me on a social networking site and we shared our numbers. Since then we have been talking regularly. But lately she has stopped calling me. What do I do?
It seems evident contact was made,
waters were tested and the ship sailed on. Or perhaps she was expecting more
than just chatter? Try sending her a little present or a lovely bunch of
flowers. It's a small investment but may reap rich rewards!
I am a 27-yea-old man and am not sure whether I am in a relationship or not. I know this girl for the past five years. We like each other and I went ahead and asked her mother for her hand. I was refused flatly on my face. I have been taking care of their family for a while now both emotionally and financially and don't understand what more they want. She has never liked anyone else and now I am confused what to do. Please help.
I am a 27-yea-old man and am not sure whether I am in a relationship or not. I know this girl for the past five years. We like each other and I went ahead and asked her mother for her hand. I was refused flatly on my face. I have been taking care of their family for a while now both emotionally and financially and don't understand what more they want. She has never liked anyone else and now I am confused what to do. Please help.
It's sad that while you are
supportive of the family emotionally and also financially, they are clear they
don't see you as anything more than a benefactor. Why don't you just put the
ball in her court? Tell her that you're ready to settle down and would love to
do so with her, but you leave the choice to
her as to whether she chooses to reciprocate or shun the proposal and then
decide if you'd like to continue the social service or make a future for
yourself.
I am a 21-year-old boy who has always thought of having a girlfriend. All my friendshave their girls whom they keep talking to all the time but I feel they are all like stalkers. I always thought that first I should earn and then get into all this. Is this peer-pressure?
I am a 21-year-old boy who has always thought of having a girlfriend. All my friendshave their girls whom they keep talking to all the time but I feel they are all like stalkers. I always thought that first I should earn and then get into all this. Is this peer-pressure?
If your girlfriend will be happy with
walks, holding hands and junk food, there's no problem. There are different
stages for different ages. But you're not in your teens anymore. You're 21 and,
I suggest you work hard and undistractedly towards a stable, financial future
first. Use your spare time to read up and research what makes women tick and ways to cultivate the most
satiating relationships. The need for romance is important, but money also
plays a very crucial role in creating romance in relationships today. Coffee's,
movies, lunches and dinners, presents, little getaways together, etc., are
almost integral to relationship building. Why live a compromised life?
I am a 20-year-old girl and I have a cousin who is 14 years older to me and divorced. We have been on great terms but lately things went a little too far. We kissed and made out. He says he loves me and wants me. I know it is wrong but cannot stop. He now wants to make love to me. What do I do?
I am a 20-year-old girl and I have a cousin who is 14 years older to me and divorced. We have been on great terms but lately things went a little too far. We kissed and made out. He says he loves me and wants me. I know it is wrong but cannot stop. He now wants to make love to me. What do I do?
In India, there are different laws
within religions and communities regarding intimate relationships with cousins.
As you have not specified yours, I can only advise you to refrain, especially
if you feel your family would be averse to it. I don't see the sense in
starting something that cannot be sustained, or have long-term benefits and
might in many aspects be something that may cause lots of grief, regret and
complications.
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